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For the record, I see nothing wrong with drinking tequila and singing to relax. It's not just for mommies! And any school that denies my child an education on this ancient tradition of my people is no institution I wish him to be associated with.

Loved it Alexandra! Happy New Year!

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Love the cultural nod, Steven! I had not even thought of cultural context but it reminds me of how my Italian relatives love sipping limoncello on a hot summer day, how much French people savour wine, etc.

It makes me realize how, in the absence of cultural appreciation, alcohol consumption is generally perceived as unfavourable in Canada and the US. But I'm grateful for your reminder not to stereotype, as there are indeed many people who consume culturally and responsibly and that's great.

Happy New Year!

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I loved the quote from Dewey about the importance of reflection on experience. And now, as it is New Year’s Eve, I’m inspired to have a Margarita and to stretch my vocal cords.

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Haha, thanks Drake! Glad the quote resonated and hope you enjoyed your new year’s singing session.

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Its remarkably what can be built by simply staying with a thing. Keep going. This has demonstrated a wealth of lessons for me: the things I kept doing and the things I let go. Reflection in repetition has a long history connected to many spiritual practices—we know this—and yet few of us keep it up. I'm lucky to have community that reinforces my nightly reflection. And as a storyteller, it is essential to catalogue these reflections for working narratives. I need to hold onto the goods. And the bads for that matter.

I was introduced to you via my friend Rick on the compliment post of his. What I wonderful post to begin with! I look forward to reading more, Alexandra!

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Thank you, David! I appreciate Rick making the referral and I’m glad this post was enjoyable.

You’re 100% about reflection and its many benefits. Glad it’s a consistent practice for you. Happy new year!

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Your entry about Florida is amazing. I love how you started... “Not tomorrow but the next day.” So honest. Love the work reflection tool. Nice way to keep everyone aware—especially you of you.

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Thanks, Simone! Reminds me of a quote I once read but can’t remember from who, that said “to write well, you have to write what you know.”

Sticking to facts and specifics goes way further than “trying too hard” to make your writing “good”. Seems like it’s easier to do as a kid since we’re less inclined to overthink things. :)

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Yes. An adult would edit that sentence immediately, believing there was a cleaner way to say it. And yes, technically there is, but the character would be lost.

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Truly, your newsletters are always packed with practical value, but that last letter of the mom who moved and went back to school is enough alone to fuel an entire year of inspired action.

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Thanks, Rick! Glad it resonated. :)

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